Shirley's Story

When Shirley Lock’s parents passed away, she moved into a residential group home. The staff and residents all were welcoming, but she missed being part of a traditional family.

That’s where Simone Stevens came in. Simone, a program manager in the Barber National Institute Supported Employment program in Philadelphia, was interested in exploring Lifesharing through Family Living. With this residential option, an adult with disabilities lives with a provider companion or family in their home in what is meant to be a long-term, enduring relationship.

Shirley already knew Simone from attending the day program and having a job in the community.  The Lifesharing support team arranged for Simone and her daughter, who was then 11 years old, to have dinner together. After a few meetings, they progressed to a weekend visit, and Shirley finally spent a week in the Stevens home. Over that time, they all came to believe that Lifesharing would work for them.

“Shirley was like a breath of fresh air in our home,” said Simone. “She was already very independent and outgoing, but she has grown a lot. She’s much happier in a family setting.”